Freixieiro de Soutelo, Portugal

Cemetery with graves in the foreground and a red-roofed church in the background. it offers a glimpse of the blue-and-white tiled fresco of St Martin

On our way to Vila Praia de Âncora, we happened upon Igreja de São Martinho (St Martin’s Church), with its wonderful tile depiction of the iconic moment when St Martin shreds his cloak to share with a beggar.

Blue and white tile fresco with yellow accents showing a roman soldier on a horse tearing his cloak in two to share with a near-naked beggar seated on the ground

Tucked behind the church is the village cemetery. I’d not seen such an array of memorial cabinets before. It would seem that these are a thing in this part of the world.

Four images showing glass-fronted niches in headstones displaying holy statues

Here, as in many cemeteries in Europe, photos show who is in the grave. I first saw this in a village in the Italian Alps. Some of the photos I’ve seen over the years are far from flattering. I’ve often wondered if the choice might be a final word – a piece of revenge – or more to do with what was available.

Manual Jose Goncalves and family 0 their grave. Statues the Holy family stand in a glass niche at the base. A crucifix crown the top from which hangs a lantern. Yellow flowers in posts sit either side.

I particularly liked this one of Artur, though as it seemed to capture a man very much alive.

headstone of Artur Goncalves Lima - born 13-9-1950 died 8-12-2024,,, a dried flower bouquet sits on the grave with a small bonsai tree beside it

Bethan Bell, writing for the BBC, has an interesting piece on the Victorian practice of death photography.

Victorian nurseries were plagued by measles, diphtheria, scarlet fever, rubella – all of which could be fatal. It was often the first time families thought of having a photograph taken – it was the last chance to have a permanent likeness of a beloved child.

Anyways, it’s not something I’d fancy, having a photo of me on my headstone. But each to their own.

Photo of two stone mausoleums in a cemetery with a partial image of a church in the background

 

 

 

 

 

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